🏃 Activity groupDublin Walking Group
Saturdays at 10am. Bull Island, Phoenix Park or the Dún Laoghaire pier.
Friendly 5 km walks at an easy pace, then coffee.
The Global Human Compatibility Platform
The Wisdom Behind Every Connection
Experience the Power of Human Connection
Find your people, not just a match.
Meet real, verified people who share your values, goals, habits and way of life: for a relationship, friendship, community and wellness, or networking. Compatibility before appearance. Values before swiping.
Connect With Humans, Not AI.
- Real People
- Real Conversations
- Real Connections
Who we are, in one minute
Real people. Real conversations. Real connections.
What HeartWise is, how compatibility and Human Verification work, and what you get when we launch in Ireland on 16 October 2026.
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Compatibility before appearance
The HeartWise Compatibility Score™
Photos come second. First, we look at what makes people last together: shared values, vision, goals, habits, lifestyle and the everyday rhythm of your days. Then we show you why you matched, in plain words.
Values
weight ×1.5Family, faith and what a good life means to you.
Vision & goals
weight ×1.25Where you're heading, and how you plan ahead.
Communication
weight ×1How you share feelings and keep in touch.
Conflict style
weight ×1Space or talk it through, and how you compromise.
Lifestyle & daily routine
weight ×1 eachEarly bird or night owl, planned or spontaneous.
Habits & wellbeing
weight ×1Food habits and how you look after yourself.
Work & learning
weight ×1Your profession, education and how much they matter.
Passions & hobbies
weight ×1What you love, and what you'd love to share.
Plus a questionnaire for your pathway, counted double: relationship, friendship, activity, wellness, chosen family, shopping or networking.
And two things to know and accept about you. "I'm very hygiene conscious." "I need some solitude time." Saying them up front saves misunderstandings later.
Try the free Compatibility Score™ check
Human Verification
No fake profiles. Five checks before anyone goes live.
Fake profiles destroy trust instantly, so every account is checked by a real person before it's activated. No check is perfect, so reporting anything that feels wrong takes one tap.
How we keep HeartWise safe →- 1
Email confirmed
A link to the address you joined with.
- 2
Mobile confirmed
A text code. Your number is never shown to other members.
- 3
Live selfie
Doing a random pose, so a stolen photo can't be used.
- 4
Proof of ID
Seen only by our team, then deleted.
- 5
Profile review
A real person approves every account.
We do our best with basic verification, but no check is perfect. Please take care before trusting anyone, and go at your own pace.
Community groups & local meet-ups
Open in every city in Ireland. Real people, in real places.
Our first community groups meet in Dublin, and new ones start wherever members ask for them. Groups and meet-ups are free for every verified member.
Photos: Eliott Reyna, Toa Heftiba, Vitaly Gariev and Antenna on Unsplash.
🏃 Activity group
☕ Friendship groupDublin Coffee Meetups
Every second Sunday at 11am, a city-centre café.
Small tables of 4 to 6, so everyone gets to talk.
🧘 Meditation groupDublin Meditation Sessions
Wednesdays at 7pm, Merrion Square.
Twenty quiet minutes, then tea and conversation.
💼 Business networkingDublin Entrepreneur Meetups
First Thursday of the month, 6.30pm, Grand Canal Dock.
Find a collaborator, a mentor or a peer.
- IrelandEvery city, open now
- United KingdomComing next
- EuropeAfter that
- Groups near youAsk for one
The AI-free zone
Connect With Humans, Not AI.
For everyone tired of artificial interactions. Every person you meet on HeartWise is a real, verified human, and every conversation is theirs. Our matching uses open, fixed rules you can read, not an AI engine.
- No AI companions
- No AI dating bots
- No fake conversations
- Real humans
- Genuine interactions
- Authentic relationships
Private by design
Talk here first. Share contact details only when you both agree.
Your phone number and email stay hidden. Get to know someone in HeartWise first, and swap details only when you both say yes.
Private chat
Only with people you've matched with. Report anyone in one tap.
Voice messages
Hear a real voice before you meet. Stored encrypted, heard only by the two of you.
Icebreakers and starters
Questions built from what you share, so you never stare at an empty box.
Talk about your scores
One tap opens a conversation about where you're closest and where you differ.
Mutual consent
Numbers and emails typed into chat are hidden until you both agree to share.
Safe first meet-ups
Plan a public place, tell someone you trust, and we'll check you're OK afterwards.
Only on HeartWise
Eight things the big global sites don't do.
Built in Ireland for people who want something real, at any age.
- 01
Why you matched, in plain words
Not just a number: what you share, and the one thing worth talking about first.
- 02
Safe meet-up planner
Pick a busy public place, tell someone you trust, and we'll ask "Are you OK?" afterwards.
- 03
A small circle, not endless swiping
A few carefully scored introductions each Monday. No swiping, no "who's online" pressure.
- 04
LAX-Chat voice companions
Weekly calls with the same friendly companion, and a short update for family if you'd like.
- 05
A trusted helper
A son, daughter or carer can follow your account's progress, without ever seeing your messages.
- 06
Community groups
Walking, coffee, meditation and entrepreneur groups, free for every verified member.
- 07
Ireland and EU first
Your data stays in the EU. Gaeilge, larger text, high contrast and read aloud on every page.
- 08
Honest pricing, no ads
No pay-per-message credits, no countdown timers, and safety tools that are free for everyone.
Is HeartWise for you?
Honest about who we suit, and who we don't.
A good fit if you…
- Want something genuine: a relationship, friendship, community or a network
- Value knowing that everyone has been checked by a real person
- Prefer a few strong matches to endless swiping
- Like to understand why you match before you say hello
- Are an older person who would rather talk than type (try LAX-Chat)
Probably not for you if you…
- Want to browse thousands of profiles today: verification takes a little time
- Would rather not share ID with anyone, even a verification team
- Are under 18
- Are looking for casual hook-ups
HeartWise on your phone
Add HeartWise to your home screen.
Opens full screen like an app, loads fast and works on iPhone and Android. Nothing to download from an app store.
On iPhone: tap Share, then Add to Home Screen. On Android: open the browser menu, then Install app or Add to Home screen.
LAX-ChatChat Support · voice only
from HeartWise
from HeartWise
For older people who'd rather just talk.
LAX-Chat is our separate voice-only service. No typing, no screens, no apps: ring one number or press one button, and a friendly, verified companion is there to chat and spend time with you.
Privacy policy
Your privacy, in plain words.
The short version of our privacy policy. The full privacy policy has every detail.
What we collect
Your name, email, town, the relationships you're looking for, questionnaire answers, photos, messages and the proof of ID you give for verification. If you use them: favourites, meet-ups you plan, helpers you add and group outings you join.
Why we collect it
To check every member is a real adult, to find people who fit you, and to keep everyone safe. We never sell your data and never show advertising based on your answers.
Your ID
Stored encrypted, seen only by our verification team and deleted as soon as a decision is made. We don't accept the Public Services Card. Please cover any PPS or ID number.
Sensitive information
Your answer about faith is optional and kept only with your clear consent. We never ask about your health. Other members see an overall match score, never your answers.
Where it's kept, and for how long
In the European Union, protected by the GDPR. Accounts not verified within 30 days are deleted. Meet-up details are deleted 30 days after the meet-up. Delete your account and everything goes straight away.
Your rights
See and download everything we hold with "Download my data", correct it, withdraw consent, or delete your account at any time. You can also complain to the Data Protection Commission (dataprotection.ie).
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