Where do the two of you overlap?
Try it with a partner, a friend, a family member or a colleague. Pick the connection, then go one topic at a time: at least ten questions just for that connection, sixteen shared statements about values and everyday life, and your hobbies. Your score updates as you go, with the areas most worth talking about.
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A score starts a conversation. It doesn't end one.
How is the overall score calculated?
Each question pair is scored by how far apart your answers are. Those scores are averaged within each dimension, then combined with core values weighted ×1.5 and future plans ×1.25. Shared hobbies count as their own area, and the questions for the relationship you picked count double. For family, the roles you each want (for example grandparent figure and grandchild figure) must fit each other. For shopping company, one person's need for help with bags or lifts is weighed against what the other can offer, because those are hardest to change later.
What counts as a good score?
There's no pass mark. The breakdown matters more than the headline number: a big gap on core values deserves more attention than a big gap on how organised you like your days. And a perfect 100% can mean someone answered to please the other.
Are our answers saved?
No. This check runs entirely in your browser and nothing is stored or sent anywhere. Refresh the page and it starts over.