Looking for family

The family you've been longing for.

Some of us grew up without parents or grandparents. Some have children far away, or none at all. HeartWise connects adults who want a family bond: a parent figure, a grown-up son or daughter figure, a grandparent, or chosen family.

Human Verified profiles  Adults 18 and over only.

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Bonds people find here

Matched with people who want the same thing.

You're only shown people looking for the same kind of connection, so expectations are clear from the first hello.

  • Parent figures
  • Grown-up son or daughter figures
  • Grandparent figures
  • Brother or sister figures
  • Chosen family
What matters most for family
  • Core values

    Traditions, faith and what family means to each of you.

  • Communication

    How often you'd like to be in touch, and how comfortable you are sharing feelings.

  • Future plans

    Where you each live and want to be, so the bond can grow with regular time together.

Good to know

Building a family bond

  • Go slowly

    Family bonds take time. Start with calls or a regular coffee and let the relationship grow naturally.

  • Prefer the phone?

    Older people can connect through LAX-Chat Support, our separate voice-only companion service.

  • Stay safe

    All members are verified adults. Meet in public at first and never send money or share bank details.

Sample story

Tomás grew up without grandparents, and Bernie had lost touch with family. Sunday dinners together have become the best part of both their weeks.

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